There's a line between training hard and training too hard. Most parents don't know where that line is until their kid crosses it.
Here are the four signs that your kid is overtraining. And what to do if you see them.
Sign 1: Injury Frequency (More Than One Per Year)
What it looks like: Your kid gets injured, recovers, and gets injured again. Different injuries. Wrist strain, shoulder pain, ankle rolls. It's not one bad accident — it's a pattern.
What it means: Their body isn't recovering between training sessions. When you don't recover, your form breaks down. When form breaks down, injuries happen.
What to do:
- Add rest days. If they're training 6 days a week, cut it to 5. Their body needs time to rebuild.
- Reduce volume. Don't cut training intensity — just the total shots/reps per week. Quality over quantity.
- Track recovery metrics. Sleep, soreness, energy level. If soreness stays high, volume is too high.
- Get a PT to assess form. Repetitive injuries usually mean form is breaking down under fatigue. Fix the form first.
Sign 2: Loss of Enthusiasm (They Don't Want to Practice Anymore)
What it looks like: A few months ago, they wanted to shoot every day. Now you have to push them. They're going through the motions.
What it means: Burnout. They've lost the intrinsic motivation. They're training because they feel like they have to, not because they want to. That's when it stops working.
What to do:
- Take a week off. Not from hockey entirely — just from the structured challenge or intensive training. Let them play for fun.
- Switch up the drill. If they've been doing wall shots, try stickhandling gates. Different stimulus, same training.
- Ask why. Is it boredom? Pressure? Fear of failure? Different problems need different fixes.
- Remove the scoreboard. If you've been tracking every shot, stop for a week. Training can be fun without metrics.
Sign 3: Plateaued Progress (Getting Worse, Not Better)
What it looks like: For months, they were improving. Accuracy up, consistency up. Then it stopped. Now they're actually getting worse — missing more, slower release, sloppier form.
What it means: They've hit the point where more volume isn't helping. Their nervous system is fried. They're too tired to learn. You need to back off so their body can recover and adapt.
What to do:
- Drop volume by 25%. If they're doing 500 shots a week, do 375. Give the nervous system room to recover.
- Increase intensity. Instead of 500 medium-effort shots, do 375 high-effort shots. Quality matters more than quantity.
- Take a full week off. This is the hardest one for parents, but a full rest week often breaks through plateaus. The body needs time to rebuild.
- Change the metric. Stop tracking total shots. Track accurate shots or consistency instead. Progress looks different at different stages.
Sign 4: Reduced Game Performance (They Dominate Practice, Disappear in Games)
What it looks like: In practice, they're sharp. In games, they're invisible. They're tentative, missing easy chances, making mistakes they don't make in practice.
What it means: They're mentally fatigued. Their nervous system has so much load from training that it has nothing left for games. They're training tired.
What to do:
- Scale back training 3 days before games. Not zero training, but 50% volume. Let them show up fresh.
- Track sleep. If they're getting less than 8 hours, training volume is too high. Sleep is where recovery happens.
- Prioritize game recovery. After a game, that's a rest day. Not a light practice day. A real rest day.
- Measure game performance, not practice performance. If they're crushing practice but disappearing in games, practice isn't the right metric.
If your kid is injured, losing motivation, plateaued, or disappearing in games, volume is too high. It's not about working harder — it's about working smarter. Rest is part of training, not the opposite of it.
Recovery Is Training
This is the thing that separates elite training from just grinding. Elite training has phases: build phase (high volume), peak phase (high intensity), taper phase (low volume, high freshness). Most kids just grind at high volume year-round and wonder why they burn out.
If you see any of these four signs, it's time to pull back. Your kid will actually get better faster by training smarter, not harder.
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